We can't move forward and develop, why?

Something that is in us only we know and we determine what we want to be like, there are 3 important things that can make us still running in place or even stop. We definitely want to grow even at risk.

These 3 things might cause us not to progress and develop.

1. The past

Still stuck with the past and trauma in the past makes us still hesitate to step in and always look for a comfort zone. Like someone who has a traumatized heartache, they will definitely expect it to happen again so they decide not to have a love relationship, or someone whose childhood has had a bad experience with their parents, they might decide not to become a parent, or someone. who got bullying behavior in his past, now he doesn't have the confidence to appear in public.

Actually the past will only be a shadow in this life now, if we make changes to make peace with the past we can just repay that bad thing to be more beautiful, not all heartache will continue to surround us and will definitely meet someone who is much different from the past then, and bad parenting behavior, we believe we can even become better parents etc.

2. Environment of Friends

Nowadays it is called "circle" I think. It turns out that the influence of this friendship is very much in our lives, for example when we gather with friends who like to do business they will support when we also start a business, conversely when we gather with friends who like to be lazy they will say "no need. There are many competitors in the business, I am not ashamed to trade, what are the risks involved? So it is very important to make a circle of friends who can really support us.

3. Comfort Zone

Like the lyrics of the song Fourtwnty " Membuka jalan mencari peran, keluarlah dari zona nyaman" Please continue. This comfort zone really makes us fall asleep in this life, right, there aren't many risks that we get, sometimes there's no risk. Have we ever been stuck in our comfort zone, prefer to watch movies at home rather than have to join business discussions with friends etc.

Indeed, this life we ​​have, want to watch movies on or keep silent, it's our business, we stand on our own feet so if the others have developed and progressed, don't get the wrong situation.

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Hopefully this article can make us grow together, and move forward together.